The result that I came out on management diagnostic is Type D high I. This result explains my personality a lot, I am the kind of person who will think of power frequently and know how to use power when I needed it. “Power” is part of my life. I love to have power and wanted to have lots of power. However, I am scare that the thirsty of power will cause me into a big trouble in the future too. Also, I believe in absolute power. I always firm on rules at my work place. The personality that I have now is probably formed when I was a child.
Throughout my childhood, I am always the only one that gets everybody’s attention. When others don’t pay attention to me, I feel so angry and so disappointed. My family members treat me very well as I grew up because I am the only daughter. Even now, I still try to tell others that I am the only one, I am the special one, and they should treat me well if not, they will lose me forever. Sometimes, I will feel so isolated because I am always imagining myself as a higher status person or having an absolute power. However, having an aggressive action isn’t always a bad thing because it seemed people respect me more when I am angry.
Starting at my workplace, I shortly realized that having a stoic emotion on my face and not getting easily annoyed would gain me respect from others. Nowadays, people love to step down on others to climb up or step down on others to make them feel better. For me having irritability personality is a mess that protects me from being stepped on. Therefore, I know that it is a good thing for me to know how and when to use my temper as a weapon. I’m the woman in POWER!!!
Also, I understand it isn’t a good idea to having that kind of personality all the time because I might have a higher chance of getting heart attacks, high blood pressure or strokes. Overall, I think the kind of personality comes from stress, power, and environmental pressure. I know it will benefit us if we know how to use our temper wisely and learn more about the effects of bad temper.
I want to have a more conscientiousness type of personality because I think it would be nice if I think more before I act. So, I can make better decisions as the result. Also, I think making decision don’t need to be made fast, it needs to be made accurately. And I believe that our personality is form by internal and external force, so it is hard for us to change to another type of personality now. However, I know I will try my best to change my personality to be more conscientious.
4 comments:
I might know a thing or two about power -- just keep in mind that power is not free and has a cost (ex. time, energy, etc. etc.)
You will get to a point where you will feel content with the amount of power you have (you might be getting there very soon) or even to the point where it will actually start overwhelming you.
At that point, once you have gotten to the top and know you have done it, you might start wishing for simpler things again.
Life is ironic. Sometimes for you to realize something or just to go from point A to B you wind up going one 大圈. It's like with me it took me about eight years or so to realize that there were more things to life than money.
One trap to look out for: power feeds on itself and is like a drug. Very pleasurable but be careful not to sacrifice too much of the other meaningful things to you in life. You don't want to get to the point where cannot return and wind up regretting it.
But you look like you'll do fine.
Having a lot of power is a good thing, but sometimes it's good to share with others as well, because you can always learn from others. although it's hard to changed a personality one to the other, but you can always try to be the type you want and act like that. It might give you a liitle help at your work.
扮只猪仔可以吃老虎
Litter pig can eat the tiger for breakfast.
I wonder which character would you be in Lord of the Flies.
I think you are very vulnerable to ruse.
三气周瑜
I think it is better for me to be a happy idiot. 做傻子，傻傻癫癫地过日子。 Life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you are going to get. 生活就像吃蔗一样，吃到了苦头，吃掉，又有一节甜的吃了。
you are really agressive and that's what lacks of me.
I think it is good that you are trying to change your personality a little bit but also think because there are many different types of people the world is interesting and greneralizing one's personality is not always necessaly.
I think you are good with who you are.
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