The undesired behavior that I have acquired is irritability. I am easily annoyed by people who don’t listen to me, especially at work. I have no patience for them because when people don’t listen, I perceive it as a sign of disrespect. When somebody gets on my nerves, I can easily change my emotion from happy to unhappy. Another thing that makes me have a bad temper and makes me aggressive is when I think about power. For me, irritability equals to power and power can talk and I want to be a person that has lots of authority.
Throughout my childhood, I am always the only one that gets everybody’s attention. When others don’t pay attention to me, I feel so angry and so disappointed. My family members treat me very well as I grew up because I am the only daughter. Even now, I still try to tell others that I am the only one, I am the special one, and they should treat me well if not, they will lose me forever. Sometimes, I will feel so isolated because I am always imagining myself as a higher status person. However, having a bad temper or aggressive action isn’t always a bad thing because it seemed people respect me more when I am angry.
Starting at my workplace, I shortly realized that having a stoic emotion on my face and not getting easily annoyed would gain me respect from others. Nowadays, people love to step down on others to climb up or step down on others to make them feel better. For me having irritability personality is a mess that protects me from being stepped on. Therefore, I know that it is a good thing for me to know how and when to use my temper as a weapon. Also, I understand it isn’t a good idea to having irritable personality all the time because I will have a higher chance of getting heart attacks, high blood pressure or strokes. Overall, I think bad temper comes from stress, power, and environmental pressure. I know it will benefit us if we know how to use our temper wisely and learn more about the effects of bad temper. So, I think an irritability personality isn’t necessary a bad thing in certain situations especially when you’re the boss and there are deadlines to meet. I’m the woman in POWER!!!
Starting at my workplace, I shortly realized that having a stoic emotion on my face and not getting easily annoyed would gain me respect from others. Nowadays, people love to step down on others to climb up or step down on others to make them feel better. For me having irritability personality is a mess that protects me from being stepped on. Therefore, I know that it is a good thing for me to know how and when to use my temper as a weapon. Also, I understand it isn’t a good idea to having irritable personality all the time because I will have a higher chance of getting heart attacks, high blood pressure or strokes. Overall, I think bad temper comes from stress, power, and environmental pressure. I know it will benefit us if we know how to use our temper wisely and learn more about the effects of bad temper. So, I think an irritability personality isn’t necessary a bad thing in certain situations especially when you’re the boss and there are deadlines to meet. I’m the woman in POWER!!!
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